It is important to be honest with students. While teachers may choose to omit information such as graphic details, it is crucial to acknowledge a tragedy, its issues and tumultuous emotions. Adults need to reassure children that their feelings are appropriate and normal. Most importantly, the adult's role in a situation of this nature is to give full attention to a child's concerns, anger, frustration or sadness, by listening carefully and acknowledging feelings.
Children need to be reassured that adults will always do their best to keep children safe and healthy. In the case of natural disaster or human intrusion, re-explanation and practice of a an education program or camp's safety precaution may ease the worries of students and the adults around them.
Older students will understand the broader intellectual implications of a political or moral situation and may have feelings or fears that need to be dealt with.
Sadness and anger can be exacerbated by feelings of helplessness. Finding ways to empower students begins to ameliorate overwhelming emotional responses.
Where appropriate, encourage students to search out information that would help them better understand a situation.
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